Talking about cancer

[Paul54]

We've read the experiences many have had ranging from the absurd to silly to painful. There seems to be sincere interest in learning about how to talk about cancer, both from the standpoint of how we should convey our experiences, and how we should ask about other peoples'. This forum does receive the occasional inquiry from researchers.

I don't know if anybody will ever discover the right way, the ideal way to ask and tell. I'm just happy the effort is being made. What brought this to mind was reading a brief article in the Dana-Farber monthly newsletter. (I subscribe to similar newsletters from MSK and Cleveland Clinic, by the way.) Below is the link to an article about talking to co-workers about cancer. It is very brief but basically hits the nail on the head. I was doubly interested to see they interviewed someone near and dear to us. Read on.
http://www.dana-farber.org/pat/support/talking-to-co-workers-about-a-cancer-diagnosis.html

[CharlieFL]

Excellent little article, Paul. I wonder who that Federico guy is? (:p) As the article suggests, I'm sure it must be a different scenario when the patient and his colleagues at work are cancer scientists themselves. The degree of understanding, at least on the medical side of it, must make it "easier" to talk about. I think work associates can be a blessing or a curse, especially for those who do not enjoy the support from family and friends and must depend on co-workers to get through difficult times. Anyway, thanks for sharing - it's always good to see one of our own being showcased in a worthy endeavour.

[MRMRSU]

Hi Paul - Thanks for sharing that article...always fun to see one of our own mentioned.

[veryworriedmom]

Hi Paul thanks for sharing. On the same topic a book that had been mentioned on the forum last year was good reading." Help me live, 20 things people with cancer want you to know" by Lori Hope The resource section lists many books on the topic,lists of online and telephone support groups and some websites including Livestrong. It talks about different stages of treatment and the support that is needed, also mentions workplace issues. Marion