Hi, I’m 19 years old. I feel a lump on my right testicle. It doesn’t hurt when I touch it but sometime it hurts where the lump is located. Pain that comes and goes. I didn’t discover it recently...like some years ago... I can feel the lump even by touching it through my shorts. Sometimes my left one hurts too and the pain also comes and goes. Frightening. I never told my parents because I don’t know how and I don’t have the courage. I did a urine and blood test few months ago not related with my case. Nothing bad in urine but blood test revealed a bit of cholesterol which surprises me because I’m slim and young. Also my calcium is a little bit higher than the normal level. I read cancer can make excess calcium leak in blood. I don’t have back pain. No extreme fatigue. Sometimes a bit tired during the day but probably because I sleep late. I know there are some special blood test to detect presence of tumors. Mine was a regular one. Proteins, platelets, iron and other stuff. I start another school session at end August and I can’t keep that for myself another 4 months. My parents are already talking about back to school. It’s urgent. I will tell my mom first but how?! I know she will ask me since when do I have that and my answer won’t be "since a few months". Now I feel so stupid for waiting. It’s not easy and I’m shy to tell them. Like do I go and say "I have a lump on my ball". Scared of the reaction ( Even my sister will know. Another thing, what does "hard testicles" means? I read hard as a rock, golf ball...how is that possible? I know you guys will recommend me to go to the doctor but I’m so shy to pull down my pants. Even during the ultrasound. Like do they touch your balls to place the thing or position my balls on something? Then the doctor will check the results and it’s so stressful and scary. I don’t wanna check. Some other questions: 1. Why don’t they do radiotherapy only where the tumor is located instead of removing the entire testicle? 2. Why can’t they just remove the lump manually? 3. Does it start to grow from the inside? 4. I know I’m forecasting too much...but.. will my hair pattern change, my beard be as thick as before and my eyebrows as thick as before after chemo? 5- The though of having one testicle won’t destroy me completely but the thought that a recurrence or injury or whatever can happen to the remaining ball destroys me. How do you cope with that? 6- In what occasion do they do a partial orchiectomy instead of removing it completely? 7. How’s sex with no testicles?
Sorry for the longgggg post but I really need help!
Thanks
Sorry for the longgggg post but I really need help!
Thanks
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