Hi guys
I’ve lurked on here in the past but never posted. I wanted to basically say that there is an end to what happens in most cases. However, for me the initial treatment and stuff, while significant without a doubt an entirely life changing – a lot of my challenges came after treatment was done.
In terms of health and psychology it took me a while to catch my stride and I went through a lot of program, diets and other stuff to try and get healthy again. Trying to balance hormones and fertility…energy…trying to build myself back up was pretty difficult. Managing relationships and everything really was extremely difficult.
So when I got the all clear recently I was reminded of everything I’ve been through in that 5 years since. It was a crazy feeling and no doubt most of you will also go through this experience at some point also.
I just wanted to say there will be struggles and there will be things you need to face to build yourselves back up again but its possible to come out stronger.
I really believe that wasn’t doesn’t kill us makes us stronger and the growth is equivalent to the degree of pain we experience.
So, let me share what I was. I was overweight, extremely stressed, insecure and not up to scratch in terms of personal development. I was tired all the time. I was in a job I didn’t like and then I got sick just like you fellas.
Now 5 years later, I’m the fittest I’ve ever been, I have a good body, I’m extremely healthy, I healed relationships or cut out the ones that were no good. I got a new job that I think is better.
However most exciting is I’ve just created a new business focusing on men’s health, trying to focus on men who have been through serious health issues and try to help them with some fundamental building blocks in getting better quicker than I did.
It wasn’t all smooth sailing. It was very hard at points. But plan, create goals and focus on your own growth. Be stoic in the face on poor fate. Things will happen, but you will meet the challenge with your personal strength. There will be set backs, but you will simply unemotionally meet these challenges and recalculate your trajectory.
Stay strong guys. You WILL get there.
Alexander
I’ve lurked on here in the past but never posted. I wanted to basically say that there is an end to what happens in most cases. However, for me the initial treatment and stuff, while significant without a doubt an entirely life changing – a lot of my challenges came after treatment was done.
In terms of health and psychology it took me a while to catch my stride and I went through a lot of program, diets and other stuff to try and get healthy again. Trying to balance hormones and fertility…energy…trying to build myself back up was pretty difficult. Managing relationships and everything really was extremely difficult.
So when I got the all clear recently I was reminded of everything I’ve been through in that 5 years since. It was a crazy feeling and no doubt most of you will also go through this experience at some point also.
I just wanted to say there will be struggles and there will be things you need to face to build yourselves back up again but its possible to come out stronger.
I really believe that wasn’t doesn’t kill us makes us stronger and the growth is equivalent to the degree of pain we experience.
So, let me share what I was. I was overweight, extremely stressed, insecure and not up to scratch in terms of personal development. I was tired all the time. I was in a job I didn’t like and then I got sick just like you fellas.
Now 5 years later, I’m the fittest I’ve ever been, I have a good body, I’m extremely healthy, I healed relationships or cut out the ones that were no good. I got a new job that I think is better.
However most exciting is I’ve just created a new business focusing on men’s health, trying to focus on men who have been through serious health issues and try to help them with some fundamental building blocks in getting better quicker than I did.
It wasn’t all smooth sailing. It was very hard at points. But plan, create goals and focus on your own growth. Be stoic in the face on poor fate. Things will happen, but you will meet the challenge with your personal strength. There will be set backs, but you will simply unemotionally meet these challenges and recalculate your trajectory.
Stay strong guys. You WILL get there.
Alexander
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