so i got diagnosed about a month ago, had surgery and now go for my pre-op (i think that's what they called it) appointment for radiation therapy on monday morning.
now through this entire time. . .not once have i felt fear. not even the day of surgery, i had no worries at all. . .i actually felt quite calm and relaxed that day.
but my mom informed me today that the docs called today and set up my appointment for monday, and that it was likely that i'd start treatment this coming week.
and it's all just hit me today. i just feel emotional about this whole thing. up to this point i've always been stable and calm. . .i cared, but i was never sad about any of this.
today i am though. i don't want any of this, i guess maybe i'm just pitying myself. i don't know.
and it doesn't help that i live in a small town in wyoming, and the closest place that can provide radiation therapy is about 240 miles away from me. . .now my insurance is really cool and is willing to put up 50% of a hotel for me. . .which is great, but it's still going to be very expensive for me the next month. . .and my life will have to go on halt for awhile.
and i'm just so sad about it.
i'm not an emotional person. . .it's hard to make me sad. but i just can't help but to be emotional right now.
is this normal? or am i just over reacting?
i mean all of you have been through this, and it's not even like radiation therapy will be bad with side effects for me (from the research i've done). . .so i'm not quite sure why i'm so emotional just now about this.
i don't know, i'll regret tryping this post tomorow, just felt like venting a bit i guess.
i hope you guys are doing okay with your treatments. i really do.
take care guys.
now through this entire time. . .not once have i felt fear. not even the day of surgery, i had no worries at all. . .i actually felt quite calm and relaxed that day.
but my mom informed me today that the docs called today and set up my appointment for monday, and that it was likely that i'd start treatment this coming week.
and it's all just hit me today. i just feel emotional about this whole thing. up to this point i've always been stable and calm. . .i cared, but i was never sad about any of this.
today i am though. i don't want any of this, i guess maybe i'm just pitying myself. i don't know.
and it doesn't help that i live in a small town in wyoming, and the closest place that can provide radiation therapy is about 240 miles away from me. . .now my insurance is really cool and is willing to put up 50% of a hotel for me. . .which is great, but it's still going to be very expensive for me the next month. . .and my life will have to go on halt for awhile.
and i'm just so sad about it.
i'm not an emotional person. . .it's hard to make me sad. but i just can't help but to be emotional right now.
is this normal? or am i just over reacting?
i mean all of you have been through this, and it's not even like radiation therapy will be bad with side effects for me (from the research i've done). . .so i'm not quite sure why i'm so emotional just now about this.
i don't know, i'll regret tryping this post tomorow, just felt like venting a bit i guess.
i hope you guys are doing okay with your treatments. i really do.
take care guys.
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