Tracy, don't be so hard on yourself---it's the 8th and I completely forgot to pay the mortgage until today, so I think I'll let you off the hook. ;-)
I've got a good question to pose to the wives/girlfriends/partners out there. My husband was referred to have his semen analysis done over a year ago. He has never done it. He just won't do it. So, he hasn't had a semen analysis since he banked it after his I/O and before his RPLND. I have run out of thoughtful and sensitive ways to convince him to just do it and get it over with. Any ideas? Bribery? Blackmail? You'd think the 40 bucks a month we spend on the sperm bank would be enough bribery to get him to do it, but alas, it is not.