Just some advice regarding Sloan... You'll probably want your current Oncologist to contact them for a consult, rather than you doing it yourself. I'm sure they'll be helpful enough if you call but they're probably going to want a ton of info from your doctor so they can review your case thoroughly before giving any advice.
Your doctor will have a number for them.
I wish you well and I'm sure that you'll come out of this just fine.
PS - I just went through a lot of your posts and I've got to say that I'm looking forward to getting the RPLND after chemo if there's any question at all that there may still be something there. Hang in there, man.