Hey Yan78...I guess you could count my hubby and I among the happy campers crowd despite the crappy luck of being retrograde post-RPLND. I gotta be honest though, the problems with sensation and satisfaction you are stating have never been problems my hubby and I have experienced since his surgery. The boys are just not swimming out...that's the set of cards we were dealt, but our sex life is no less pleasurable because of it.
You're only two months out, it's very possible that your issue could resolve as others have experienced a full return nearly half a year out. As for your prematurely aged feeling, I'm so sorry you feel this way. I think that's mind over matter, and I hope that you will be able to find your own peace with this...regardless of the ultimate outcome. Best wishes to you.
*Hubby Andy diagnosed 02/13/07, Left IO 02/16/07 *Stage 1A Non-Seminoma (65% Immature Teratoma / 35% Embryonal Carcinoma) *RPLND 04/27/07 Lymph Nodes-ALL CLEAR
*Complications from Chylous Ascites so Laparotomy 05/03/07 *No food for 10 weeks, TPN only *07/18/07 Removed drains, tubes, picc line *CT Scan 07/31/07-ALL CLEAR
*CT Scan 02/12/08-ALL CLEAR *Hydrocele surgery 06/19/08 *CT Scan 9/30/08 and 03/06/09 shows <cm left lung nodule - under surveillance